Category: Relationships

As parents, it’s tempting to turn every moment into a lesson. But growth doesn’t always come from speaking up—sometimes it comes from simply showing up. We can listen without lecturing, love in the midst of conflict, and guide without controlling. Not every moment needs a lesson, but every lesson needs the right moment.

“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” (Romans 12:18) Relationships can get messy and complicated. Scripture teaches us that, while peace should be our priority, there are times when peace isn't always possible. When a relationship is strained, pursue peace by owning your piece, and place … Continue reading Living In Peace With Others

One of the best ways to connect with someone is to care about what they care about. Ask questions.Listen well.Follow up later. You may not understand why it matters to them, but when you treat it with respect, a bridge is built. Attention paves the way to connection.

Praise tests your character in ways suffering never will. Criticism can wound the heart, but compliments can go to our head. The Dead Sea is dead because it only takes in—it never gives out. Encouragement is meant to flow through us, not just to us. Don’t just receive encouragement.Give it away.

If you keep hopping from church to church looking for the “right one,” the problem may not be the churches—but how you view church. We live in a consumer culture that wants churches to meet all our preferences. But church isn’t about checking boxes—it’s about abiding in Jesus with imperfect people. Church can be uncomfortable … Continue reading The Problem with Church Hopping

If you have to convince someone to be in a relationship with you, you shouldn’t be in that relationship. You’re not applying for a job. You don’t need to prove your worth to family, “friends,” or someone you’re dating. Don’t waste your time on people who see you as a waste of theirs. Don’t settle … Continue reading When the Other Person Doesn’t See Your Worth