The more someone is hurting, the less you need to say. Few things soothe the soul like being truly heard. A listening ear can do more for a hurting heart than a thousand well-intended words. Sometimes the greatest comfort you can offer is silence and your undivided attention.
What Most People Miss About Integrity
Integrity is revealed in the light but developed in the dark. What you do when others are watching is often image management. What you do when no one is around—when you believe no one will find out and there’s no reward for doing the right thing—that’s real integrity. Integrity is strongest where it is least … Continue reading What Most People Miss About Integrity
The Unexpected Gift That Reminded Me What God’s Grace Really Means
Photo by Irina Chishkova via Unsplash.com Six years ago my son got really sick ended up needing a stem cell transplant. Without question, it was the hardest season of my life. I remember during that time praying, “God, just save my son’s life. If you save my son’s life, that will be enough.” And by … Continue reading The Unexpected Gift That Reminded Me What God’s Grace Really Means
The Problem With Trying to Impress People
The more you try to impress people, the less impressed they’ll be. People aren’t drawn to self-promotion.They’re drawn to kindness.To quiet confidence.To someone who takes a genuine interest in them. When you focus on being a blessing instead of building an image, respect tends to follow. Don’t try to impress.Find ways to bless.
What Most People Don’t Understand About Growth
There is no growth without grief. Growth is uncomfortable. It means letting go of something you care about, that was good for you at one point, but is holding you back now. And that loss hurts. Instead of pretending it doesn’t, acknowledge that grief is part of the process, and give yourself space to feel … Continue reading What Most People Don’t Understand About Growth
Faith Doesn’t Require Pretending
Trusting God doesn’t mean pretending you’re fine when you’re really not. Sometimes people will share something awful they’re going through, then put a smile on their face and say, “But God is good!” as if everything is okay. You don’t have to fake it until you make it. You’re not a bad Christian if you … Continue reading Faith Doesn’t Require Pretending
Jeff McClung 