We like to be liked—and it’s making us miserable. When someone doesn’t like us, we assume something must be wrong. Sometimes, nothing’s wrong. Not everyone is meant to walk closely with you. Appreciate the people who appreciate you. Don’t resent those who don’t. Your goal isn’t to be liked by everyone—it’s to become more like … Continue reading Seeking Christ Over Popularity
Stop Carrying Records God Already Destroyed
Several years ago, I was cleaning out my closet and found something I wasn't expecting. It was 2020, and we were in the beginning stages of the COVID lockdown. I decided to make use of my time by doing some decluttering, which is something I love to do. I love getting rid of junk. I … Continue reading Stop Carrying Records God Already Destroyed
When We Stop Scripting God’s Answers
Many of us say we want God’s will, but what we really mean is: “God, please bless my plan.” The moment we stop insisting on our way—and stop scripting God’s answers—we make room for His grace, His presence, and His work in us. Lasting change doesn’t come through forging our own way. It comes through … Continue reading When We Stop Scripting God’s Answers
What Most People Get Wrong About Joy
Most joyful people I know aren’t that way because their life has been easy or they had a gene the rest of us don’t. They found joy because they learned to hold on to what was good in their life. They didn’t pretend the bad wasn’t bad. Rather, they chose to embrace what was good … Continue reading What Most People Get Wrong About Joy
Trusting God’s Word When Your Can’t See His Work
The miracles we need rarely come packaged the way we want. In John 4:46–54, a royal official begs Jesus to heal his dying son, but Jesus doesn’t go with him. Instead, He simply says, “Go. Your son will live.” Despite his disappointment, the man trusted Jesus and his son was healed. Faith is trusting God’s … Continue reading Trusting God’s Word When Your Can’t See His Work
Your Value Isn’t Determined By Your Visibility
Your value isn’t determined by what people see in you, but by what God has placed in you. Not everyone will get you or recognize you—and that’s okay. Don’t let that stop you from doing what He’s called you to do. You won’t be seen by everyone by you’re always seen by the Eternal One.