Peter's first mistake when denying Jesus was believing that he wouldn't. When Jesus tells you something about yourself, believe Him—especially when it's something you wish weren't true. He brings those hard realities to the surface so we can deal with the spot before the infection spreads too deep to treat. You can't change what you … Continue reading On Denial and Change
On Walking Away
Not every battle is worth fighting. In Genesis 26, Isaac and Abimelek disagreed over several wells in the land they occupied. Isaac could have fought over them—but instead he trusted God to provide another one. Not every mistake needs to be corrected.Not every opinion needs to be voiced.Not every argument needs to be continued. Sometimes … Continue reading On Walking Away
When Someone You Love is Hurting
The more someone is hurting, the less you need to say. Few things soothe the soul like being truly heard. A listening ear can do more for a hurting heart than a thousand well-intended words. Sometimes the greatest comfort you can offer is silence and your undivided attention.
What Most People Miss About Integrity
Integrity is revealed in the light but developed in the dark. What you do when others are watching is often image management. What you do when no one is around—when you believe no one will find out and there’s no reward for doing the right thing—that’s real integrity. Integrity is strongest where it is least … Continue reading What Most People Miss About Integrity
The Unexpected Gift That Reminded Me What God’s Grace Really Means
Photo by Irina Chishkova via Unsplash.com Six years ago my son got really sick ended up needing a stem cell transplant. Without question, it was the hardest season of my life. I remember during that time praying, “God, just save my son’s life. If you save my son’s life, that will be enough.” And by … Continue reading The Unexpected Gift That Reminded Me What God’s Grace Really Means
The Problem With Trying to Impress People
The more you try to impress people, the less impressed they’ll be. People aren’t drawn to self-promotion.They’re drawn to kindness.To quiet confidence.To someone who takes a genuine interest in them. When you focus on being a blessing instead of building an image, respect tends to follow. Don’t try to impress.Find ways to bless.
Jeff McClung 