Pay attention to how someone talks about their past. If they’re always the victim and rarely admit when they're wrong, that’s something to notice. Healthy people can own their mistakes and grow from them. Unhealthy people tend to shift the blame. You can't build a healthy relationship with someone who isn't willing to take responsibility … Continue reading One Crucial Signal That Your Relationship is Unhealthy
The Secret to Becoming More Like Jesus
One of the areas that I have struggled with for most of my life is food. Ever since I was a kid, I have struggled with overeating. Throughout my life, I have had a mixed bag of success—seasons where I’ve been able to make good and healthy choices, and seasons where I haven’t. And even … Continue reading The Secret to Becoming More Like Jesus
The Lie We Believe About Vulnerability
Vulnerability doesn’t diminish your value. It develops it. It takes self-awareness to notice what hurts. It takes strength to admit it. Not everyone earns your honesty. Share it with someone safe. That’s how you grow. That’s how you heal. You can’t heal what you hide.
Acting On The Answers Your Already Have
You can’t move forward if you keep making excuses for what’s holding you back. Most of the time, we don’t need more clarity—we need more courage. Stop asking God for a different answer and start obeying the one He’s already given you. Obey what you know.Trust God with what you don’t.
Seeking Christ Over Popularity
We like to be liked—and it’s making us miserable. When someone doesn’t like us, we assume something must be wrong. Sometimes, nothing’s wrong. Not everyone is meant to walk closely with you. Appreciate the people who appreciate you. Don’t resent those who don’t. Your goal isn’t to be liked by everyone—it’s to become more like … Continue reading Seeking Christ Over Popularity
Stop Carrying Records God Already Destroyed
Several years ago, I was cleaning out my closet and found something I wasn't expecting. It was 2020, and we were in the beginning stages of the COVID lockdown. I decided to make use of my time by doing some decluttering, which is something I love to do. I love getting rid of junk. I … Continue reading Stop Carrying Records God Already Destroyed
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