“Because we’ve always done it this way” isn’t a good enough reason to keep doing it that way. The people who started it were figuring things out as they went. What worked then might be creating problems now. The best way to honor the past? Make sure what matters most has a future.
Inconveniences vs. Injustices
We get angry over inconveniences because we treat them like injustices. Life doesn’t hand out passes from problems. It’s okay to want comfort—just don’t lose compassion chasing it. Small annoyances don’t just test your patience—they grow it.
Work in a Way That Works for You
What works for others might not work for you. You don’t need their formula; you need your own flow. Learn from them, but don’t imitate them. We don’t need a replica—we need you. Work in a way that works for who you really are, not who you wish you were.
Stop Building What’s Breaking You
It wasn’t until the third story of what’s now the Leaning Tower of Pisa that builders realized the foundation wasn’t solid. But they kept building. Building on a weak foundation never works. You can’t fix what’s broken by doing more of what broke it. Admitting what’s broken isn’t failure — ignoring it is.
The Problem with More
Striving for more can leave you with less. The unchecked drive to be better and accomplish more, while well-intentioned, can leave you with a full schedule and an empty soul. Balance what stretches you with what restores you.
Why You Shouldn’t Be Afraid To Try Something New
I did a thing this weekend. I’ve been toying around with shaving my beard for a while. I’ve had some kind of facial hair for 10 years and wanted to see what it would be like to go around clean shaven for a while. I felt really nervous about shaving my beard off. Having a … Continue reading Why You Shouldn’t Be Afraid To Try Something New